many asked why can a friend be our lover, while our lover is a friend?
If a feeling for a friend evolves to true Love that's fine in that case he will be our beloved best friend.
But when they told me we can make a relationship with a friend coz he's here & we just want to have fun, so what is the problem??& the next day we will be having another..
Where is the respect of feelings? Where is the human feeling? Where is the humanity, true authentic heart???
A relationship or lets say being physical with friends without real Love for me it's a sin, being physical only just for fun for me is giving up our values & real feelings & obeying only to our instincts, why would we allow ourselves to degrade ourselves, transforming to other non human creatures?..
Sometimes both partners have same objective "fun" having no problem with the disgrace of their humanity & some other partner have other objective behind accepting this game, in all ways this is diminishing to our humanity this is destructive more than constructive, it may cause problems as well.
Every relation that is not based on true Love is wrong and what is wrong is usually followed with the worst circumstances.
Fun is good when as long as it's decent, relationships should be built on mutual true Love feelings, no one can have fun with feelings, the soul is feelings, our heart is Love feelings, no one gambles with Love..
& If it comes to me a friend is always for me a friend, a friend for me is a brother that can't me my Beloved, our heart will know from the first second we lay our eyes on a guy if he will be just a friend or our heart will beat for him.
If we build on fake unreal instinctive superficial materialistic feeling, all will be destroyed & hurt both but if we build on strong true Love basis it will be a blessed divine relationship.
The choice is yours let your heart be your guide, don't fool your heart, don't go for just what you get if it's not really what you want, believe in yourself give yourself a chance to find your true Love, each one of us deserve to find his soul mate, after all that's why we were born to truly Love.
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